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How to add romance to dinner tip #2: Make a dinner of small nibbles, like these Welsh Rarebit Canapés by www.cookthestory.com

5 Tips & 25 Recipes for a Romantic Dinner

5 Ways to Add Romance to Dinner and 25 Recipes to Try Together by www.cookthestory.comRomance shouldn’t be hard work for a married couple. When two people know each other well it should be easy to laugh, talk, flirt, hold hands and gaze into each other’s eyes. And yet, when we’re so busy, it can be difficult to let that easy romance happen.

We fall into our ruts of talking about the kids and work and then watching tv in bed instead of focusing on each other.

My 5 best tips for adding romance to dinner are little ways to stop you from falling into that rut. These are things you can cook and ways you can dine so the two of you spend time together and focus on each other at dinner, which is a great place for romance to begin on an otherwise busy day.

Romantic Dinner Tip #1: Interact with the food, interact with each other

It’s so often the case that we fall into the trap of talking about the kids, the same old work issues, etc.. If you want to get out of the rut and start some different conversations, cook up some food that makes you interact with it and with each other. It gives you something to do with your hands, it lenthens dinner giving you more time to talk and the food itself is a great conversation starter.

And it’s fun!

If you don’t know what I mean about interactive food, it’s things like Fondue and Raclette where you’re actively doing something at the table other than just eating. It can even be as simple as cheese and crackers but where the cheese is in big chunks and you need to slices wedges off with a knife as you go (pick up a cracker, spread it with some preserves, pick up the knife, cut a piece of cheese, put the cheese on top of the preserves. See, lots more to do than just lifting your fork to your mouth).

Romantic Dinner Tip #1b: Cook together (or not!)

Part of interacting with the food and with each other could mean that you cook together. But for some couples this is not an ingredient for blissful romance but instead fires up the fights and frustrations. It’s the latter for me and The Hubs.

5 Ways and 25 Recipes to add Romance to Dinner: Interact with each other, interact with the food - cut vegetables for dipping up at the table, serve dips and fondues and anything else that gets your hands moving and helps jumpstart conversation as you eat, like this Warm Goat Cheese Dip with Basil and Lemon by www.cookthestory.comBut we do like to watch each other cook.

So we talk while one of us does the cooking. The other person is in charge of pouring wine, keeping the music going, setting the table and complimenting the cook on how amazing everything smells and looks.

Here are some interactive dishes from around the web. These are great for sharing at the table whether or not you cook them together:


Romantic Dinner Tip #2: Make a meal of small nibbles.

A meal of small nibbles stretches your romantic evening out longer. Also, putting a plateful of little tastes in front of the two of you means that you’re sharing (and thus interacting as in #1 above).

If it’s a plateful of finger foods, all the better.

There’s something sweet and special about sharing finger foods. Often your hands touch when reaching for the food. And also, having something to do with you hands makes silences less noticeable and can even help start up a conversation (about something other than the kids).

Perhaps more importantly, a meal of small nibbles leaves room for breaks. You can stop after your first round of nibbles for a dance to a favorite song or to go sit outside and look at the stars or to…erm…go spend time together someplace more comfortable.

If you instead sit down to a bit honking meal, you’re not going to get up halfway through to go and do anything.

How to add romance to dinner tip Romantic Dinner Tip #2: Make a dinner of small nibbles, like these Welsh Rarebit Canapés by www.cookthestory.com#2: Make a dinner of small nibbles, like these Welsh Rarebit Canapés by www.cookthestory.comHere are a couple of my recipes for romantic nibbles that you can share:

And here are some romantic nibbles from a couple of my favorite bloggers:


Romantic Dinner Tip #3: Make sure it’s a quick and easy dinner to prepare.

If you spend half the day making your romantic meal you’re going to be exhausted by the time you finally sit down together to eat. If you’re exhausted you’re not going to be relaxed and happy. If you’re not relaxed and happy you’re not going to feel romantic.

If you’re not feeling romantic there will be no romance.

Also, I find that if I’ve worked a lot on a meal it’s hard for The Hubs to just relax and talk with me. I think he feels pressure to really concentrate on the food and make a big deal about it.

For a romantic dinner, I want his focus more on me than on the food.

I think that we sometimes think that effort and hard work shows our partner how much we care. But talking with them and making time to listen,  shows caring just as much, if not more. If you want to put in effort and hard work, why not make a simple dinner and then afterwards offer your sweetie a massage?

A partner rubbing my shoulders is definitely more romantic than one frantically running around the kitchen sweaty and harried trying to make an elaborately perfect meal.

Add romance to dinner, tip #3: Make a quick and easy meal so that you're relaxed and happy when you sit down together. Try this easy and fun recipe for Raclette by www.cookthestory.comTwo of my own favorite easy dinners are:

One of the simplest, most delicious and most romantic dishes, in my opinion, is pasta, especially if it has a bit of a creamy sauce. Here are some easy creamy pasta dinners from some of the most awesome bloggers in the universe:


Romantic Dinner Tip #4: Make sure to get in the romance-type-stuff before you fill up too much.

As Dan Savage repeatedly reminds his readers and listeners, better to hit the sheets before dinner than to find that you’ve eaten too much and drunk to much and then find yourself wondering why Valentine’s Day never ends the way you want.

It instead winds up with you both dozing on the couch in front of the TV.

My advice? It may seem too early in the evening but seriously, suggest to your valentine that the two of you take your appetizers to the bedroom. That way, if you find yourselves full and tipsy and watching The Daily Show after dinner, you won’t care because your Valentine’s Day has already been a romantic success.

Romantic Dinner Tip #4: Don't fill up before fitting in the real romance. You may even want to take hte appetizers with you to the bedroom! Try these Puff Pastries with Mozzarella, Sundried Tomatoes and Roasted Peppers by www.cookthestory.comHere are some portable appetizers from some beautiful bloggers that you can try together:


Romantic Dinner Tip #5 (I’ve saved the best for last!): Go on a culinary adventure together at the dinner table.

Now I do not mean that you, the cook, should find some new whacky idea on pinterest, shop for it, make it and then spring it on your partner in a “Surprise! Guess what we’re trying tonight!” kind of way.

That puts pressure on both you and your partner. If your sweetie doesn’t really like the new thing, then he’ll feel awkward saying so. And if you’re unsure whether he likes it or not, you spend the meal worrying and asking, “Do you like it?”

Trust me, that uncertain questioning tone is not romantic.

What I do mean is that you should talk together about the meal beforehand and try to think of some new little twist on an old favorite that you can easily make. Or maybe there’s a fruit or vegetable you haven’t tasted before or a spice or a type of cuisine.

Go into it together.

Then you can talk about what you expected and how it met or didn’t meet those expectations. Neither of you is caught surprised or needing to explain why you didn’t like something and nobody has hurt feelings when their partner doesn’t like the new thing that was sprung on them.

Here are some simple recipes that might just give you some new things to try out:

If you’ve never had sriracha before, or if you’ve never attempted to sear scallops for yourselves at home, this recipe is for you:

Romantic Dinner Tip #5: Go on a culinary adventure together by deciding together to try something new, like these Seared Scallops with Sriracha Lime Butter by www.cookthestory.com

What happens when you try mixing up flavors that you would never think to put together? Sometimes they really work, as do the asparagus and mint combo here. And if you’ve never tried blackening a lemon to use it’s caramelized juices, you get two new things in one recipe.

Romantic DInner Tip #5: Go on a culinary adventure by deciding together to try something new, like the combination of mint and asparagus in this recipe for Roasted Potatoes and Asparagus with MInt and Charred Lemon by www.cookthestory.com

Couscous is such a simple and delicate grain. If you haven’t tried it before, this is a great chance. I’m positive it will become a staple in your house after Valentine’s Day.

Romantic Dinner Tip #5: Go on a culinary adventure by deciding together to try something new, llike couscous in this recipe for Couscous with Chorizo, Thyme and a Spritz of Lemon by www.cookthestory.com

Have you heard people talking about how good chocolate and spicy heat go together but have been afraid to give it a try? This cake is so quick and easy to make (it’s done in 1 minute in the microwave) that if you decide that the flavor combination is a no-go for you, you can whip up another spice-free cake in minutes. A fun taste test with no risk since you still get your chocolate fix!

Romantic Dinner Tip #5: Go on a culinary adventure by decided together to try something new, like cayenne pepper with chocolate in this super-quick Hot Hot Chocolate Cake by www.cookthestory.com

Cardamom is a spice that we in North America don’t tend to use very often. But once you try it, I bet you’ll fall in love. Here it has a subtle note with the chocolate. A romantic introduction indeed!

Those are all my tips and my list of favorite romantic recipes. Looking for another touch of romance for your evening? I have a deliciously fun and romantic Valentine’s Day card available as a gift to my Facebook Fans. Click here to become a fan and get your copy of the card:

A Free Valentine's Day Card to download and print from www.cookthestory.com

 

I hope you have a romantically delicious Valentine’s Day with your sweetie!

Now tell me, what are your best tips for adding romance to dinner? Do you rely on certain kinds of foods or are there specific recipes that you particularly enjoy together? I’d really love to hear how you get into a cuddly loving mood on Valentine’s Day!

 

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4 Responses to “5 Tips & 25 Recipes for a Romantic Dinner”
  1. Susi says:

    It’s the same for hubby and I… we cannot cook together- well. It’s either him or I. For years we made lamb chops, grilled asparagus and stroganoff noodles for Valentine’s Day – the first meal hubby cooked for me on Valentine’s Day many years ago. :)
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  2. Katie says:

    Great tips! Happy Valentine’s Day!

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